Age ain’t nothing but a number and best-selling author, speaker, life reinvention strategist, fitness expert, and TV host Wendy Ida is a living example that great health can be achieved at any age if you embrace and take care of your body. However, she did not always have the glow that she has today. She grew up in poverty, and almost lost her life as a victim of domestic violence. But she chose to believe in the hope and promise that tomorrow holds. With only the clothes on her back, she made a decision to no longer be a victim but to be the victor and start living out loud. Listen in or read more as Wendy speaks about her life through her joy and pain, and how it all came together to shape the confident leader that she is today as well as being “America’s #1 Expert on Looking Good Naked After 40!”
BFT: It’s said to never ask a woman her age but we HAVE to ask because a lot of people won’t believe your age when they see your picture and how in shape you are – so how young are you Wendy?
WI: I love that question! I am 61 and guess what, I’m having so much fun! [laughs] I celebrate each and every day. When I go to my speaking events I say, “today is my birthday, again!” I earned it and I feel grateful not only to be where I am, but also to be alive.
BFT: When people take a look at you and before they learn more about you, it may be easy to assume that you’ve always had a fairly easy journey and that you’ve always been in great shape, but you have a story to tell! So, how far have you come and tell us a little bit about what motivated you to get healthy.
WI: Well that’s true. People when they see me today they say “girl, you’re so lucky!” They can’t believe that I am the age that I am and they don’t believe that I have children or anything like that. They assume that I just have it like that and I go “no, no, no,” and I have to remind them that this was not an overnight something. I wasn’t always like this since 20-something and yes, now I’m a best-selling author, speaker, life reinvention strategist, fitness expert and TV host BUT, I am also a domestic violence survivor. I grew up in New Jersey, in the New Jersey projects, on welfare and sometimes all we had was grits to eat for dinner. I saw abuse as a child then I married someone who was abusing me even before we married.
I suffered physical, emotional, mental, and sexual abuse for 13 years before I found the courage to run across the country with my two babies and only the clothes on our backs. My babies were a huge motivator in me taking the risk to take the last ditch effort to escape, because I saw that their lives were vastly being affected. Before for my escape, I didn’t think I was going to live quite frankly past the age of 43 – and I came close to that many times and I’m confident that if I had stayed where I was that my saga would’ve ended. Once I got safe and settled, I wanted to feel better, because for 13 years I was constantly tired and my self-esteem suffered; I needed answers and I needed help, and that was the beginning of my motivation towards the healthier side of life. It took awhile because I was a fast food junkie but I was tired of being sick and tired.
BFT: When you made that decision to leave and get help, you said you were a fast food junkie – how was your life at that point physically?
WI: I was a fast food junkie. I was out of shape and I ate because I wanted to feel better. I didn’t know what to eat, I was uneducated and didn’t know the next thing to do, all I know is that I was in pain and I wanted to do something about it and eating was a way to comfort myself – it was an emotional thing and I can say – being 80 pounds overweight was not fun, but the emotional abuse… emotional abuse does last far longer than the physical abuse. Physical pain stops after the beating and maybe the soreness, but the emotional pain lasts forever.
- To be comforted because we can’t find it anywhere else
- To have some kind of control over our lives
All I wanted was for the pain to stop, and I used to use medicine which just soothed and comforted me before I even ventured so much as to think about fitness or health. Although I no longer had physical pain, I was screwed for years after because of the emotional pain. I still have nightmares today…to this very day and wake up in cold sweats because of the emotional things going on, but that’s what I started with and that’s what I had to work on first; and I had people help me with that.
CrossFit Inc Global Branding Manager Talks with Black Fitness Today Ahead of Manion-WOD to Honor Fallen Hero
On April 29th, CrossFit gyms across the country will recognize the sacrifice of 1stLT Travis Manion and complete the Manion-Workout of the Day (WOD) to benefit Travis Manion Foundation (TMF) veteran initiatives such as TMF veteran expeditions, veteran-empowerment programs, and scholarships.
Read our interview with CrossFit Global Branding Manager, Jimi Letchford, and TMF President and Sister of Travis Manion, Ryan Manion.
Who was 1stLT Travis Manion?
Ryan: Travis was my best friend, and younger brother by 15 months. Even though I was the older sibling, I looked up to Travis in many ways because he always set the example. Travis was a high character person even from a young age, and when he saw something wrong, he would stand up. He was an all-league standout in wrestling, football and lacrosse, a member of five championship teams, and an All-American wrestler. Travis was best known as a motivating and popular figure to his classmates. This combination of leadership, athleticism, and academic achievement opened the door to his appointment to the United States Naval Academy.
After graduating from USNA, he decided to follow in our father’s footsteps and was awarded a commission into the United States Marine Corps. After finishing at the top of his class at The Basic School in Quantico, VA, Travis was assigned to 1st Reconnaissance Battalion, I Marine Expeditionary Force, with whom he deployed to Iraq for his first tour of duty. On April 29, 2007 during his second tour of duty in Iraq Travis, his fellow Marines and Iraqi Army counterparts were ambushed. Leading the counterattack against the enemy forces, Travis was fatally wounded by an enemy sniper while aiding and drawing fire away from his wounded teammates. Travis Manion paid the ultimate sacrifice that day, but his selfless actions allowed every member of his patrol to survive.
How does CrossFit serve as a vehicle for honoring heroes like 1stLT Travis Manion, who paid the ultimate sacrifice?
Jimi: Every day, millions of people engage in CrossFit workouts around the world. Our Workouts of the Day (aka WODs) are constantly varied, (relatively) high intensity, functional movement challenges that are intended to elicit physical and mental responses like no other workout regimen. The CrossFit program may not be for everyone, but it is for anyone.
Our Hero WODs are a different breed. They’re intended to take you to your limit. It’s up to the athlete to decide whether they’ll push past this limit. During this process, we honor the Hero(es) in which the workout was named. The men and women we honor through these WODs have amazing stories of character and bravery, and knowing about their legacy pushes us to go even further than we thought possible.
CrossFit has closely aligned its core values with that of the military. Why might CrossFit be something veterans want to give a try?
Jimi: CrossFit has a very tight-knit community, and a great sense of camaraderie among participants. When veterans join a CrossFit gym, they often find that camaraderie very similar to what they experience while in service to our Country. The idea that you belong to something bigger than yourself can often be lost while transitioning out of the military to civilian life. Like the military, there’s also a competitive nature to CrossFit. That friendly competition is something many veterans continue to look for in the next chapter of their life, and CrossFit is a great way to fill that void.
“If Not Me, Then Who…” is a question that has come to shape 1stLT Manion’s legacy. How is TMF and CrossFit answering this question?
Ryan: “If Not Me, Then Who…” isn’t actually a question, it’s a mantra that Travis lived by every day, and we’re inspiring future generations to put that mantra into action within their own lives. Just before Travis left for his second deployment to Iraq, he attended a football game with my husband Dave, and while they were leaving the stadium, Dave said to Travis “How about I push you down the steps so you break your ankle, and you won’t have to go back?” Travis looked at Dave very serious, and simply replied “If Not Me, Then Who…” He went on to explain that if he didn’t go back, someone less prepared would have to go in his place. This is the way Travis approached everything in his life, even from an early age. Those words have grown into a national movement that is inspiring hundreds of thousands of people to be of service to their own communities, and to be part of something bigger than themselves.
Jimi: Travis was as true a friend as you could ever find. He always looked out for others, and often times would even thank me for pushing him to work harder. He was also a fierce competitor, and would never cut corners. His mantra of “If Not Me, Then Who…” really does represent how selfless Travis was. To me, Travis is representative of all the other Heroes that our Nation, and CrossFit community, have lost. So, I’d like to tell anyone that will be honoring Travis (or whoever else they’ll be honoring this weekend) to do so with the utmost integrity to the workout standards. Remember that those we honor through our Hero WODs paid the ultimate sacrifice in their line of duty. It is now our duty to never forget them. “If Not Me, Then Who…”
How does CrossFit motivate its members to collectively complete intense WODs sometimes named in honor of fallen military and first responders whom the members have no personal connection?
Jimi: The people that walk into our CrossFit boxes are people that recognize that only hard work will achieve health and wellness. CrossFitters don’t believe that there is a ‘magic pill’ for fitness. It turns out that this psychographic also tends to be very altruistic and humble. As a CrossFit community, all we have to do is tell the story of the fallen Hero, how it may relate to the workout, and the rest just happens. For example, the “Manion” Hero WOD is extremely leg intensive. We know from our relationship with Travis that he always had the strongest legs of anyone on our team. So, Travis’ workout consists of a 400 meter run and 29 back squats (135lbs), done over 7 rounds. The numbers are somewhat poetic; Travis was killed 4/29/07.
How can people exemplify Travis’ character and sacrifice beyond the four walls of a CrossFit box where many join together once a year to complete a WOD honoring Travis’ legacy?
Ryan: Get involved in your own community. Look for your passion and a purpose, and wake up with determination to make a difference in the world every day, no matter how small. Live by “If Not Me, Then Who…” and look for those opportunities that present themselves each and every day that you can be the best version of yourself, and take advantage of them.
What communities does TMF serve?
Ryan: We currently have offices in 8 cities across the country, which include: Atlanta, Chicago, Houston, New York, Philadelphia, Raleigh, San Diego, Seattle, and Washington D.C. However our impact and opportunities for involvement are nationwide.
How does the Travis Manion Foundation ensure that children of fallen heroes are not left behind?
We work closely with families of the fallen, and specifically organize service expeditions for survivors. These expeditions allow family members of fallen military to spend time with others who can relate to their journey, while providing them an opportunity to carry on their loved one’s legacy by being of service to a community in need. We host 8-10 domestic or international expedition each year, and one such expedition is specifically for teens who have lost a parent or sibling in service to our country. These young adults learn that while their loved one may be gone, they can honor their memory and carry on their legacy through the actions they take each and every day.
Where can people find information on joining or volunteering with TMF?
Ryan: Anyone can join the mission by visiting travismanion.org. We have volunteer and engagement opportunities throughout the year, which includes our Operation Legacy service projects and the 9/11 Heroes Run 5K series.
What do you want people to know most about Travis?
Ryan: Travis always challenged himself to be the best person he could, and he did that by focusing on being big in the little things. Because of that, he was prepared when bigger challenges arose. The legacy that Travis left behind, and for that matter all our fallen heroes, is one that we all have a responsibility to carry on. The way that we do that is by look towards the character they lived with, and challenging ourselves to think about how we can be the best version of ourselves – because “If Not Me, Then Who…”
What is Irradiation and How Can It Maximize Your Lifts?
A couple weeks ago I attended the Functional Range Conditioning (FRC) seminar, which focuses on training mobility. The course was a solid reminder and in some cases a perception-altering experience about human anatomy, physiology and functional movement. I’ll break down some of the components, theories and principles of FRC at a later time but for now, I want to focus on tension, a key principle in the FRC system. However, for the purpose of this post, I’ll focus on how tension can increase general strength and performance.
How can tension take your lifts next level?
Tension – not to be confused with the general bodybuilding idea of “time under tension,” which usually is referring to keep a prime mover under tension, such as the pectoral during bench press. Irradiation is rather the isometric contraction of the non-prime movers and the prime mover along with the necessary contraction to produce movement or not; it depends on the situation.
Tension is a common word for “irradiation,” is often overlooked during training. Irradiation comes from Sherrington’s Law of Irradiation which states:
A muscle working hard recruits the neighboring muscles, and if they are already part of the action, it amplifies their strength. The neural impulses emitted by the contracting muscle reach other muscles and ‘turn them on’ just as an electric current starts a motor.”
Simply put, the more motor units recruited to produce movement or reduce movement, the better neural activation to help you control the weight or load.
Example: Think about a time when you had to push a car or lift a heavy object.
How did you prepare for the push or pull of the car or whatever that heavy object was?
Did you only concentrate on using your legs (prime mover)?
Or did you create tension throughout multiple muscle groups, possibly every muscle group (irradiation)?
More than likely you used irradiation. Why? Because your primal instinct kicked in and you realized to move that car or heavy object, it would take a lot of effort (neural drive) and you called on your central nervous system to recruit all the potential strength you possessed to apply maximal force.
Incorporate irradiation in your training
If done properly, irradiation can yield some quick gains to your lifts and increase strength simply by increasing neural muscular efficiency – the ability for the central nervous system to recruit the muscle required for your desired movement when called upon. The greater efficiency you have in recruiting motor units to produce movement or resist movement, the greater your force production or strength/power application will be.
How to perform irradiation
It seems easy but easy is not simple and simple is not easy. With that said, create tension throughout the entire body. For example, if you’re performing standing biceps curls, you create an isometric contraction throughout your entire body; feet (ground contact), quads, glutes, abdominal complex, forearms, scapulae retracted and of course tension and controlled movement in/with the biceps.
Although the primary focus in the above example is to perform a biceps curl, the irradiation effort thorough out the body is also training the nervous system to produce activation in all muscle groups more efficiently.
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