Celebrity trainer, motivator and author, Nicole Chaplin, continues to build a long list of accomplishments. Seen on ABC’s Good Morning America, VH-1, and magazines like Fitness Rx for Women and Oxygen Magazine, Nicole Chaplin, has become a well-known name in the fitness industry. Her path to training and helping others achieve their goals did not come overnight; from struggles with self-esteem, an abusive relationship, to beginning and ending her career at Roc-A-Fella Records. Read our interview with Nicole and hr journey.
Seeing your confidence today, some may find it surprising to learn that your physical features affected your self-esteem early in your life. In your book Yes MAM! you write, “My skin is chocolate, my lips are full and defined, my nose is broad and pronounced, and my natural hair is thick and strong.” How did your uniqueness lead to struggles with self-worth?
I had a hard time with my appearance earlier on in my life. I felt like my features were not embraced. My parents are Jamaican and I was born in Miami. In my home, color didn’t matter but I felt a way at times in my surroundings because I was usually the darkest complexion in every school I went to and I felt like an oddball at times. It put a damper on how I saw exterior beauty and it definitely took time and self awareness to realize that I was made perfect in God’s image.
Taking control of what matters most is something that has helped you keep a “glass is half full” outlook. What do you consider to be most important in your life?
The most important part of my life has to deal with knowing that God and family have my back. If I rely on being peaceful, I always make better decisions; I can not allow negative energy to stop me from loving with a pure heart and passionately.
If muscle is a motivator, what is your strongest muscle?
My heart baby! Owww. Its where your desires begin and where you feel love.
You write about a violent relationship you were involved in and how at one point your were hit with a closed fist. And we know from statistics that being involved in toxic relationships can lead to a vicious cycle of seeking similar relationships in the future. How did you avoid that trap?
I quickly pulled myself together and realized “LOVE” does not hurt, it is not painful. Having a man strike you breaks down a woman’s self worth. It really does something to your self-esteem but through time, inside and outside wounds heal and you realize there is a better way to be loved. I started to appreciate my life and value it and realize no one should harm me and call it love because it’s definitely not.
Let’s talk about your turning point, because at one point after college, you began working for Damon Dash at Roc-A-Fella Records, but you wanted more. What was it that you were missing?
I enjoyed the music industry a great deal, especially working with Kanye West. When Damon and Jay went there separate ways I knew in my gut it was time for me to find another avenue. I was having a blast – literally every single day but I wanted to be engaged in a career where I was changing lives in terms of health and I knew I could use my passion for working out somehow.
How did overcome the fear of leaving a budding career in the music industry to pursue your dream in fitness?
I used my heart as my motivation because its where I get excited about what I am doing. I started to read more and more fitness magazines and learned how to become a certified personal trainer. Before I knew it, not only was I was certified but my clientele grew so quickly I was training 45 – 55 sessions per week and then had a waiting list, and this was within the first 3 months. That’s how I knew my heart was in the right place because the desire was there and everything moved quickly for me.
What do you hope women can take away from your story?
I would like women to know that nothing can keep them from excelling as long as they believe it in their heart and soul that they can achieve what they desire. Once I started to love myself as I was/am, my life changed for the better. Be blessed, and to the world, thank you for allowing me to share my story with you.
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